I need some help ladies. Either reassurance or a slap in the face. :)
See, I was invited to a Bachelorette party this Saturday night, and have plans to go. We're going to dinner, then back to the host's house for a lingerie party, & everyone's sleeping over. Sounds great, right?
Well, I'm totally sure it will be, except for one little thing: Z & I haven't spent a night apart since we got married. I know it has to come sometime, but I'm just not ready for it yet. I'm still in the stage where I absolutely cherish those minutes that we snuggle & spend talking before falling asleep each night. And to be 100% honest, right now I'd rather do that than fall asleep at someone else's house.
So here are the circumstances:
- The bride & host are friends I met about a year & 1/2 ago. They're super sweet, fun girls, and I enjoy spending time with them, but we're really not that close. Basically just see eachother or talk on facebook once in a while type friends.
- Z & I have very busy weekends planned for the next month, which means more time apart.
- We've been married for 6 months. And still have hearts in our eyes. I admit it. :)
- Two of Z's sisters are going. Which means I'd have to come up with a reason why I'm leaving early that wouldn't cause them to give me a hard time forever.
So what do you guys think? Am I just a pathetic newlywed? Is this okay to do?
(this, from a girl who may or may not still have her baby blanket hidden in her adult bedroom.. yes, I have separation anxiety!) :)